I guess, though.. how to we determine what's right?

Sure, it's ****ed up and seriously twisted, at least in my opinion, and clearly yours as well. But if this is REALLY what makes them feel good about themselves and provides them some sort of happiness, who are we to tell them otherwise?

Just as it's no one's business to tell us the err in our ways, the same goes here - we may not agree or like it, but it isn't forced upon us to see. Live and let live (or die, in some cases) - is what I say.

I'm a pretty kinky dude, or at least, that's what everyone tells me...I gotta ask, whatever happened to "Safe, sane, and consensual?"

it walked out the door with personal responsibility.

I think English is his 2nd language and that it indeed is real. Concerning, but real.

Shocked


& Disgusted

Where do you draw the line with anything? I'm not saying that he has no right to do what he wants, I'm just making the statement that I think he's depraved.

Now, I'm sure this will get picked apart until the cows come home, but this is my theory. I think that what he's doing is no different that what causes people to cut themselves or try and commit suicide. He has some thing inside of him that is buried so deep that he needs an outlet for it, and his sexuality is it. It's just he's chosen to express it in such a foreign way that I think people who read this are confusing sexuality with mental illness.

I don't think that what he's doing has anything to do with sex, it has to do with identity and power and punishment. Now, there are ways to explore those concepts through "normal" sexuality, but when that is the entire basis for your "sexual" drive, it becomes apparent to me that this has nothing to do with his sexual gratification.

That, plus this guy needs to go on Fear Factor. If you can eat old jism out of a stranger's condom, you can eat anything.

Oh, plus!

He's an attention whore. If he *really* wanted to get AIDS, he could in an instant. This is like people who repeatedly talk about suicide, but never make an attempt. It's not that they want to die, it's a cry for help.

im glad you pointed that out phal, if he wanted aids, he could have had it long before now.

unless there is some devine power with a sick sense of humour out there. "that guy gave a blow job once to a guy he trusted, lets give him aids...this guy wants it and injects himself with strangers spunk....lets keep him clean for life!!"

meanwhile i quite happily munched a bar of chocolate while reading over it. it seems i am just not shocked by much any more.

Shock and Disgust sounds like the latest war plan from Rumsfeld.

I want to make an omnomnomnom of this dude.