The girl who did my industrial, Jen Minuti, just left her job at Spider-Bite in Manchester, NH, to go to a respectable place in Philadelphia called Infinite Body. The address is 626 South 4th Street, and the phone number is (215)923-7335.
It's just a piercing shop, no tattooes, so I think you'd be pretty safe there. Let them know about your past experiences. Nickel is usually only found in cheap jewelry from Claires and such, and piercers should always use medical grade stainless steel, which has little to no nickel. Jen is awesome and she did an awesome job with my industrial, and I was ****ing picky about the barbel, the angle, etc.
Post back and update us! I'd love to hear what it's like at that shop if you go there.
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