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Life with a PA over time

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LeoH
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Posted on October 7, 2008, 9:11 pm

I've read many posts on this site and on BME and 99% of them are similar, "Hey this is great, just had it done, just diddled myself 2 weeks after, fa la la la..." you've read 'em too.

I'd like to hear (hopefully others as well) from those of you who have PA's for a year or longer, and do things other than sit around and have sex or masturbate.(Not that there's anything wrong with that....)

I have questions about having a PA when I bicycle commute 12 miles a day 4 to 5 days a week and go on longer pleasure rides. I ride a motorcycle when it's cooler and usually wear armored pants over regular pants so there's some cloth getting smushed in the private parts area and I've been known to ride horses in English tack. The piercing being noticed doesn't faze me in riding pants, but bouncing wrong in the saddle on a trot or canter gives me pause.

There are probably other situations I'm forgetting or haven't thought of others can list to this.

I understand that there will be a period of weeks/couple of months where things are dicey, but after full healing, what are experiences readers have had and what real world solutions have you come up with?

Thanks for your constructive comments.

Leo H



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First of all as with any

Posted on October 7, 2008, 9:42 pm

First of all as with any piercing have it done, as it is not a do it your selfer. I will guarantee that you will get the cbr in a position that will pinch when you first have it and sit, ride a bike etc. In time you will learn to position things so that does not happen and all will be right with the world. So go get poked and enjoy.


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"First of all as with any

Posted on October 7, 2008, 10:17 pm

"First of all as with any piercing have it done, as it is not a do it your selfer. I will guarantee that you will get the cbr in a position that will pinch when you first have it..."

Thanks for the comment. Absolutely, my level of masochism does not extend to self inflicted abuse No chance of that happening. Only self willed abuse....

I'm just curious about the general sensation after the healing is complete. I understand that there will be twinges and awkward moments likely, but I'm wondering how often those arise.

It isn't the same, I know, but the only experience I have to potentially compare this to is the 3 earlobe piercings I had 30 years ago.

Leo H.


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I can help much about the

Posted on October 8, 2008, 9:49 am

I can help much about the post, not having, you know, the appropriate ... experience, but I would like to congratulate you for researching the big picture, and not being happy with "I only just got it, but I love it" stories.

I only wish more people did!


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Only this, and nothing more.'


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I would also consider an

Posted on October 8, 2008, 8:48 pm

I would also consider an apadravya if I were you. While wearing a straight barbell that fits comfortably, I very rarely get into a situation where the piercing pinches me or causes any pain. Sometimes in the morning when I've got an erection and I move a certain way, the piercing catches on the front opening of certain boxer shorts, and that doesn't feel good. But its more of an annoyance than a painful experience.

Honestly, I've had no problems riding a bicycle (both a road bike for distance, and a mountain bike on trails). There are times during the day that I completely forget about the piercing. Part of that, again, is that I wear a snug fitting barbell that only leaves 2 balls on either side of the piercing. Works well for me.


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gracie-chan wrote:I can help

Posted on October 8, 2008, 10:49 pm

gracie-chan wrote:
I can help much about the post, not having, you know, the appropriate ... experience, but I would like to congratulate you for researching the big picture, and not being happy with "I only just got it, but I love it" stories.

I only wish more people did!

I'm so glad to hear it annoys others

Leo H.

ps your image reminds me of a group called Controlled Burn.


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sevenft wrote:I would also

Posted on October 8, 2008, 10:59 pm

sevenft wrote:
I would also consider an apadravya if I were you. While wearing a straight barbell that fits comfortably, I very rarely get into a situation where the piercing pinches me or causes any pain. }snip{

Honestly, I've had no problems riding a bicycle (both a road bike for distance, and a mountain bike on trails). There are times during the day that I completely forget about the piercing.

Pardon the ignorant question, when you say snug fitting barbell, you're referring to it being snug when you're erect right? If so, wouldn't that leave several millimeters exposed when you're flaccid?

I guess thinking more about when I had multiple ear piercings, there wasn't much of a pain problem with them, but we are talking about different areas of the body and nerve endings too. So maybe what I'm asking is how would those healed genital peircings' sensations compare to a pierced ear?
Wacky, but that's all I have to compare at the end of the day.

It's interesting mentioning the apadravya, I enjoy the appearance of the PA, but also there is the consideration of it being generally less painful and quick to heal, as well as less painful uPinkLol I'll look into the apadravya a little more; is yours above or through the urethra? Why?

Thanks,

Leo H.


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question on apadravya, if

Posted on October 9, 2008, 1:29 am

question on apadravya, if you have a foreskin, will this piercing be a problem as it would not let the foreskin come right over the head or the penis will it?
Dont know, just thinking aloud!


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I couldn't tell you about

Posted on October 9, 2008, 12:18 pm

I couldn't tell you about foreskin issues, though I imagine it could be a problem.

As for the snug fitting barbell, yes its snug when I'm erect. In fact, I recommend that you have it "very" snug, since its not going to hurt you and it won't be snug for a long time (unless you've got priapism uAaahhh). The benefit is that there is so little barbell left when you are flaccid, that the chances of it catching are greatly reduced.

My apadravya is through the urethra. If you try to go around it, there's no way it could be symmetrically straight. And by going through it, the flow of urine is supposed to help with cleaning. Only difference it has made with urination is that the bottom ball often drips, which is easily manageable (its very slow and drips straight down). So I haven't had to sit.


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I have had my PA for 2 yrs

Posted on October 9, 2008, 12:26 pm

I have had my PA for 2 yrs now and also ride a bicycle to work. I have never had any problems in doing so only on occation if the cbr was in an uncomfortable position it might pinch a little while healing but now its fine. uSmile2
I also had a motorcycle at the time i had it done and riding that always brought a smile to my face, it gave me some of the best sensations ever! Bike had to go, I miss those vibes so much uFrown
My advice to you would be to get it done if you really want it, I love mine and wouldnt be without it now. Wife likes it too. Bonus uHappy


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grevets wrote:I have had my

Posted on October 9, 2008, 7:41 pm

grevets wrote:
I have had my PA for 2 yrs now and also ride a bicycle to work. I have never had any problems in doing so only on occation if the cbr was in an uncomfortable position it might pinch a little while healing but now its fine. uSmile2 I also had a motorcycle at the time i had it done and riding that always brought a smile to my face, it gave me some of the best sensations ever! Bike had to go, I miss those vibes so much

Thanks. That's what I'm looking to hear.

Leo


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I've had mine for just about

Posted on October 9, 2008, 8:45 pm

I've had mine for just about ten months, I'm currently at 6g and plan to stretch to a 4g in a week or two.
If I understand your question, you are asking if there is much sensation in the piercing after healing?
To be honest when I am out and about doing my daily business I hardly notice it. Except, I changed to a circular barbell not long ago and it got caught in my scrotal piercing when I went to take a leak, and that was not a great feeling!
The feeling for me is most noticeable (and enjoyable) when naked and can feel the weight of it. Or when having sex of coarse.
I ride a mountain bike with no problem and am getting a motorcycle before long and I don't anticipate any problems with the PA.
BTW, I wear either briefs or boxer briefs. They prevent moving around too much.
My recommendation? Get it done and share your experience with us.
Good luck!


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In agreement with chrmkr

Posted on October 10, 2008, 9:49 am

In agreement with chrmkr also, its a good sensation when walking naked when pierced i quite like how i sort of jingle its nice uSmile2


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>snip

Posted on October 10, 2008, 9:23 pm

>snip To be honest when I am out and about doing my daily business I hardly notice it. Except, I changed to a circular barbell not long ago and it got caught in my scrotal piercing when I went to take a leak, and that was not a great feeling!
>snip<

ouch. This would be an only piercing for the forseeable future, so that's a pass. I can see how that'd be a problem uEek

Reading these posts is helping me imagine what it would be like and it makes sense. I am interested in this kind of a piercing because it's not obvious, it's kinda kinky, and it seems like it would look and feel cool. It's just trying to get a handle on the idea of just how constant the constant sensation might be for this piercing.
I do wear briefs or the boxer briefs and I've read enough faqs and posts to understand they're the way to go.

I need to figure out how best I would present this act to my wife and no one but me can do that; probably by showing her all the pretty jewelry she now can pick to put in my Bad Words ! uBiggrin !

It'll happen when it's the right time to occur but I feel that it's going to happen.

Thank you,

Leo H.


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grevets wrote:In agreement

Posted on October 10, 2008, 9:25 pm

grevets wrote:
In agreement with chrmkr also, its a good sensation when walking naked when pierced i quite like how i sort of jingle its nice uSmile2

Jingle? How many piercings do you have?

Leo H.


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sevenft wrote: As for the

Posted on October 10, 2008, 9:33 pm

sevenft wrote:

As for the snug fitting barbell, yes its snug when I'm erect. In fact, I recommend that you have it "very" snug, since its not going to hurt you and it won't be snug for a long time (unless you've got priapism uAaahhh). The benefit is that there is so little barbell left when you are flaccid, that the chances of it catching are greatly reduced.

So did you have input on how long the piercing ought to be or did you just rely on the piercer and did they tell you, 'I'm putting Y size in because for X reason is why the piercing is Y sized'? Also, how large is the wand you have and how large are the ends, thinking about what you said about how it's 'snug' when you're erect?

Leo H.


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When I was pierced, the

Posted on October 10, 2008, 11:30 pm

When I was pierced, the barbell was longer than necessary to accommodate potential swelling during healing. I actually did not have any (hardly any bleeding either) so the longer barbell was uncomfortable, but manageable.

After 3 months, I took a magic marker and marked the extra part of the barbell when I had an erection. The piercer used my measurement to select a 1-inch barbell, and then she replaced it on the spot. She would not have agreed to replace the bar until at least 3 months healing time. Either way, the shorter bar was much more comfortable.

I've got 4ga hardware that I'm waiting to put it (not quite ready for the stretch) and I bought a 15/16" barbell just to see how a smaller size would feel. We'll see how that goes.


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I`ve had my PA for about 3

Posted on October 11, 2008, 2:03 am

I`ve had my PA for about 3 years going from 10g to 0g and never had any problems re discomfort other than when I had it first done and that only lasted a short time. I just love it uHappy


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sevenft wrote: I've got 4ga

Posted on October 11, 2008, 9:51 am

sevenft wrote:
I've got 4ga hardware that I'm waiting to put it (not quite ready for the stretch) and I bought a 15/16" barbell just to see how a smaller size would feel. We'll see how that goes.

It sounds like you went to a piercer who knew her stuff.

This is just a curiosity question, for anyone, but at what point in the jewelry expansion does it actually affect urination? I'm sure that a 10g wire isn't noticeable, but there is some size that is a point of diminishing returns.

Leo H.


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sevenft wrote:I couldn't

Posted on October 11, 2008, 10:34 pm

sevenft wrote:
I couldn't tell you about foreskin issues, though I imagine it could be a problem.

i've had mine for close to three years and it's never given me problems. as for the foreskin issue, no problem whatsoever. about the placement, i might be wrong, but i think you're confusing the apadravya with the ampallang... 'cause i don't think you can pierce the apa without going thru the urethra...
anyways, whatever you get i doubt it would bother you in the long run, whatever activity, if anything you may want to consider wearing a snug brief or maybe even a jockstrap if needed. good luck and happy healing


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You could pierce an

Posted on October 12, 2008, 12:33 pm

You could pierce an apadravya far enough to the side that it doesn't pass through the urethra (maybe to make room for 2). It's definitely not common though.


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LeoH wrote:sevenft

Posted on October 15, 2008, 4:55 am

LeoH wrote:
sevenft wrote:
I've got 4ga hardware that I'm waiting to put it (not quite ready for the stretch) and I bought a 15/16" barbell just to see how a smaller size would feel. We'll see how that goes.

It sounds like you went to a piercer who knew her stuff.

This is just a curiosity question, for anyone, but at what point in the jewelry expansion does it actually affect urination? I'm sure that a 10g wire isn't noticeable, but there is some size that is a point of diminishing returns.

Leo H.

Diminishing returns? LOL!

But, yeah, you're right...the larger wire will have an effect.

At 1g (7mm), function is not impaired, but as you might expect, the obstruction results in a certain amount of delayed release...mildly annoying, but managable.

I've had a PA for about 6 years, converted to an appy for a couple of years there in the middle, so I have a number of observations.

First, size matters, and bigger, up to a point, is better. Better in the sense that it is much more comfortable, and less prone to pinching. At the same time, smaller is better vis-a-vis ring diameter. A large ring is just "floppier", and presents a lot of exposed hardware to get into mischief. The larger rings can also prove uncomfortable to your lady, which is an obvious concern. I wear a 1/2" diameter segment ring, which sounds small, but it works well for me...nice snug fit, in the same sense that Seven was discusing with his appy.

On the subject of appys, Seven is right on the money. The bb should be as short as possible, to the point of being snug/tight when erect. It's counter-intuitive, I know, but it is not at all uncomfortable. Like Seven, after several jewelry changes, I settled in a 15/16" bar, with elliptical ends.

The appy was, by far, the best piercing I've ever had...there when I wanted it to be, but absolutely "invisible" the rest of the time. I was simply not aware it was even there. Alas, my wife found it uncomfortable, and as the saying goes, "if mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy."

I hope this is helpful. Good luck!


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"...The appy was, by far,

Posted on October 15, 2008, 8:21 pm

"...The appy was, by far, the best piercing I've ever had...there when I wanted it to be, but absolutely "invisible" the rest of the time. I was simply not aware it was even there. Alas, my wife found it uncomfortable, and as the saying goes, "if mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy."

I hope this is helpful. Good luck!..."

Absolutely your comments were helpful, especially noting which gauge was noticeable with obstruction. Also the point about metal mass and moving the ring around pinching things unexpectedly. Does the obstructing urination with a 1ga also apply to ejaculation?

As for floppy rings, did you have a CBR or barbell and does one style cause more problems? From your comments, a curved barbell might be less prone to catching and pinching.

I have read on more than one occasion that the appy was generally, or at least, most often, not a comfortable piercing
for the female partner, so I'm not surprised to hear about your final outcome with that.

Thank you,

Leo H.


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To clarify, obstruction

Posted on October 16, 2008, 1:33 am

To clarify, obstruction overstates things a bit. It's unnoticable during urination or ejaculation, but there just seems to be a tiny bit more drippage than normal. It's really not a big deal, and many men wear much larger jewelry successfully.

I have worn CBRs, circulars, and segments...I don't think the style of jewelry matters nearly as much as size. If only half of the ring or bb is exposed, as opposed to, say, a quarter, it will be more stable, and will move around less.

I have never tried a curved bb, which would seem an obvious choice, because I can't imagine the ball right at the end of the urethra not playing merry hell with the urine stream. I may be wrong, but I doubt it...maybe someone who has tried it will weigh in with his experience.


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I had a Prince and retired

Posted on October 16, 2008, 11:57 am

I had a Prince and retired it to get an apadravya. I like it more than the prince and I find it easier to keep out of the way. It is more painful than a prince, but if you go to an experienced piercer from the time of the start of the piercing until the needle is through the glans is not more than a second.


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bash wrote:On the subject of

Posted on October 16, 2008, 9:36 pm

bash wrote:
On the subject of appys, Seven is right on the money.

uDance uBiggrin

bash wrote:
The bb should be as short as possible, to the point of being snug/tight when erect. It's counter-intuitive, I know, but it is not at all uncomfortable.

Yeah, it's hard to explain because it sounds like it will be uncomfortable but it's really not.


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PA ring will irritate the

Posted on November 5, 2008, 5:44 am

PA ring will irritate the hell outta u sometimes, especially if ur real active. I replaced mine w/a barbell and now I hardly evev know my Bad Words is pierced. I like the looks... of the ring better but...


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