besides body art?

Not sure if its a fetish, per se, but I have to admit that I'm very much into the asian ladies.

Oh, and body art is nice, too.

This isn't quite what you were asking for, but might be interesting for discussion, and I've been wondering about it lately anyway.

I was reading a silly book about sex today with a silly friend, and we read a paragraph about fantasies.

Later, she asked me if I'd ever seen myself staying with my ex for the rest of our lives. (she's in a relationship that she thinks is going to last that long now.) I told her that yes, I'd seen myself with him for the rest of our lives. I'd also seen myself with like three other boys and one girl I dated in the past forever, and thankfully none of those things ever happened. Like it said in the book, just because it's a fantasy doesn't really mean you want it to happen. That's tricky for me. Do you guys do this too?

As far as what your question... lately I fantasize a lot about threesomes. They are very much something I do want to happen though.

Long hair is the big one. When PDBsg has his hair down, it's all I can do from reaching over and eating him alive.

When he first asked me on a date, I actually turned him down, and then he had the audacity to write a PM to me about a fantasy of his that involved dragging his hair across me, and I took the bait-- Glad I did!

I like to be bit.

I also get really turned on by guys in makeup, but I doubt that's happening any time soon.

I also have lots of fantasies about being deeply kissed very slowly. Most of my fantasies involve my partner taking control- not in a rape fantasy kind of way, but a loving kind of way- I like to be ravished, and I especially like to me weighted by the feeling of my partner on top of me.

I have a feeling I'm going to learn waaaaaay too much about Phal's and PDBsg's sex life

FrigZ wrote:

I have a feeling I'm going to learn waaaaaay too much about Phal's and PDBsg's sex life

Don't count on it! In some respects, Phal and I both are very open. This is especially true when the sharing of information might help the other party or parties in the conversation.

We're both willing to share anecdotal funnies with the community at large, but it is mostly private. She and I have both been through the relationship wringer a time or two, and have found a certain kind of peace between ourselves through a very private intimacy. For the purpose of this conversation, the keyword there is "private."

To answer Trin's question, karezza is a fetish of mine.

I've always been kinda freaked that I appear to be into bondage, but it's never been anything hugely serious. Usually it's the idea of it more than the physicality if that makes sense. Being tied to the bed with elastic bands is just as fun as big leather straps. I don't care too much whether I'm in control or on the recieving end, as long as it's fun.

Threesomes are a nice thought, although porn threesomes are always kind of meh ... and people think I'm an exhibitionist. I find it hard to talk about this kind of stuff with the bf, since i really care what he thinks. It doesn't matter if you guys think I'm preverted, but I can't bear the thought of freaking him out.

I woulnd't call it a fetish, but i love long hair on guys too. If they're friends i can plait it, and if they're my partner I can pull it.

I would like a 3 some maybe with a couple (m and f)

Ooh. Lovely topic!

Bondage
Domination/submission
Butts (huge HUGE turn on)
Bitting (!!!!)
Spankings
Long slow deep kissing

**big tall men**
Time for a cool shower. lol

Let's see. In no particular order: Voyeurism, underage sex, sex with females, group sex, gay sex, anal sex, schoolgirls, spanking, bondage, d/m, S&M, costuming and dress-up.

(thinks) Is that all?

ETA: Leather!

Lets see i've been thinking about this...
Anal
being man handled
Oooh.. yes that fine line between pleasure and pain is so yummy.

I might be slightly twisted.

My biggest fetish is oral (i.e. anything a man can do to me with his tongue!). I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE receiving oral! I also like watching it being given. It's the best use for a man's mouth! I love sex, but a man's oral skills have always been what made or broke a sexual relationship for me.

hmm...bondage. girl on girl. erotic asphyxiation. and I agree with JamieLee, being manhandled mmm

I don't know if this is fantasy or fetish. It is something in lovemaking that I enjoy giving. I think that guys should save a tree, eat a beaver. Tasty little critters.

I have a thing for: bondage, play rape, sex in public, anal sex, beatings, group rape, threesomes or orgies...

Most of the normal stuff. I do have the one extremely rare/odd one that I'm just not comfortable talking about. And there's no way I can even describe it without being graphic...

Im with you on pretty much all of those...kinda freaks me out that im into it. Like extreme rape, choking and snuff stuff.

FrigZ wrote:

I have a feeling I'm going to learn waaaaaay too much about Phal's and PDBsg's sex life

Lol- Nope, that's our own private loveliness.

However, I will say without going into detail that he fulfills a lot of my fantasies without knowing it. He seems to always know what I need or want, sometimes before I do. That's pretty freaking awesome compatibility, if you ask me.

I think I'll keep him.

Gawd I love being choked...

Actually, I will share this, cause it's not really a sexual act and not particularly graphic.

Both PDBsg and I have terrible problems getting to and staying asleep. Some nights when I wake up, I just look at his hair spilling over those lanky, coltish shoulder bones and I wriggle uncontrollably. It's dark brown and streaked with the most amazing colour of silver- it actually shines in the light from the street lamps.

Then he'll snore or fart, and I'll laugh at him, roll over and go back to bed. Ah, reality......

I however, NEVER fart in my sleep.

^^ Ya...right haha

omg me too Trin...chokedchicks.com...just a tip

I have a fetish for knife-play, and I'd love to try sounding on someone...

Actually, now that I re-read these, I've realized that most of my fantasies/turn-ons don't really involve physical sensation.

I am turned on immensely by emotional closeness and intimacy.

Much of my daytime thoughts while PDBsg and I were apart were centered around eye contact, light touching and tracing, and barely touching lips.

That is NOT to say that I did not fantasize about the sex because it most certainly is great, but in terms of what really gets my heart racing and that flip-floppy jolt of adrenaline going, the above is quite stimulating.

I guess that really ties in to what I said in the one night stand thread- I really derive no satisfaction from non-intimate sexuality. There is no thrill, no desire.

I keep re-visiting this thread- I really have not thought about what my turn ons and or fetishes are, so this is really quite interesting and helpful. Thanks, Trinneh!

Manderz wrote:

JamieLee wrote:

**big tall men**

Did I say : 6'4'....245 lbs

I am over the top with my fantasies. They involve things that are mostly erotic. But bottomline is that if it makes you feel good then got for it.

Hey I am one of those people who has never gone near trying anal.. is is actually nice and how is that so? I'm curious but then I go "ew no, thats my poop hole!"

Well, some people love it. I personally have tried it less than a handful of times, and whereas it was not uncomfortable with plenty of lube, it was neither erotic nor physically pleasant for me. I was actually bored and just wanted to laugh like a fourth grader at the ridiculousness of the situation.

I guess you won't know until you try, but I'm a hardcore, "never again" on that front. Or back. Er.......

Secret affairs with teachers
People with authority, mostly just the teacher thing though
Sex in public
People being in control of me, but nothing major, just like being held down and stuff
Biting and scratching
I like tall men too like some of the others, I'm only 5ft so it's nice feeling all protected
Had a big thing for girl-on-girl until the thing with Ria, which made me realise that I don't really like it in real life as much as I thought I would

My ex's most favorite was anal and on top. Wow! It was a huge "O" every time. We saved it for special occasions. Most important is the guy must be slow, sensual and patient. Try it, you'll love it.