Have you "come across some conflicting information" about aftercare, as one poster recently said? Does this website say one thing, your piercer say another, and five of your friends all say different things? Are you dazed and confused?
Don't feel bad--pretty much everyone has to mine this rushing stream for gold.
Unfortunately, there's also a lot of just plain wrong info and bad advice, as well as a confusing array of choices for your aftercare.
There are several reasons why there's a huge amount of conflicting information out there:
1) We're making this up as we go along. Through trial and error, aftercare has evolved. Some of the info you are getting may be "old school"; some just flat outdated. New techniques and materials are being invented, and consensus on things is slowly being reached.
2) Piercers tend to be rather extreme individualists. You get every aftercare regime propounded from "do nothing at all" to "put organic honey on 5 times a day and chant under the full moon." Most piercers, even the most experienced and professional ones, can barely agree on even simple things about piercing; and some are of the "my way or the highway" type.
So, what should you do to make sense of all this?
--First, and most important, is to use your common sense and listen to your body. You want to keep your piercing clean and free of infection. During the healing phase, you are going to want to protect it and promote healthy healing. Listen to your instincts--if what you are being told seems too easy or too weird, or too uncomfortable to work; well then.
--Do your research. This is a great place to start. Check out the aftercare guidelines here, and elsewhere on the 'Net, for example, at the Association of Professional Piercers site.
--Listen to a good, professional piercer you trust. If you can find one. Ask questions, find out why they are recommending a particular thing, and make up your own mind. Even if that person's recommended aftercare regime is a little different from the "standard," if you trust that person, and it seems right to you, go for it.
--One place NOT to get aftercare--your friends. Sorry, but after listening to a gazillion, "but my friend said I should do XXX"--this is the source I would trust least.
Remember, there is no "one, right way." People's bodies are different; their habits, and their environments are different. What works for your best friend, your boyfriend in another state, or even most people, may not be right for you. The right way for you is the one that lets your piercing heal the fastest with a minimum of discomfort and fuss. Good luck!
Sincerely,
Cloud.
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I'm stickying this Cloud
Posted on June 12, 2008, 4:27 pmI'm stickying this Cloud
Can I go and retrieve your old post on salt soaks as well? Copy and paste it into here, or if you can find it or something, it was one of the best threads we've had.
I missed you posts, I'm so happy to see you back.
Great post, great advice, as per usual.
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That's my
Posted on June 12, 2008, 5:13 pmThat's my specialty--pontificating from on high.
Just remember to take anyone's advice, mine included, with a grain of salt.
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Rather literally on your
Posted on June 14, 2008, 4:45 pmRather literally on your opinion on salt soaks.
Speaking of which, I've read through your message and think it's all spot on, so I'm gonna copy and paste it to here.
Cloud on salt soaks:
Basic Recipe: 1/4 teaspoon to 1 cup (8 oz) water. The correct proportions are very important for the process to work. If the solution is too weak, it will be ineffective; if too strong, it may cause the cells to swell and burst, irritating your piercing and the skin around it.
The Salt: Use sea salt, not regular table salt (which has ingredients added to prevent it from clumping; it may also have iodine or other undesirable ingredients). Look for salt labeled, “non-iodized sea salt” in grocery or health food stores. Sea salt is not kosher salt, rock salt, or Epsom salts.
Mix it: Mix the measured amount of salt in a clean container with very warm, not hot, water, or pop it in the microwave for thirty seconds or so (don't burn yourself). Bottled or distilled water are optimal but not required.
Soak: Once or twice a day for 5-10 minutes. Soak before showering, or rinse afterwards with clear water. Use a cup or bowl. You may have to lie on the floor, or lean over a table; for navel piercings lean over and seal the cup onto the area to create a vacuum. You can saturate a sterile gauze pad or a strong paper towel and apply it (but it probably won't be as effective). Cotton balls or buds may leave fibers in the piercing—a bad idea. Don't forget to rinse with clear water to remove salt residue.
The whys and wherefores: Remember that piercings heal from the outside in, and soaking helps irrigate and drain the wound. A warm, mild salt water solution soothes and helps to clean crusties off. The difference in alkalinity between the saltwater and the surface of your skin draws out the fluid and other matter that accumulates in the wound. Hot water also opens the capillaries, bringing blood flow and therefore oxygen to the piercing site, encouraging healing.
Note: Soaking is not cleaning! Be clear on the difference between soaking and cleaning. Cleaning with mild soap (also recommended for proper piercing care) is meant to reduce surface dirt and microorganisms on the skin which can cause infection.
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Kat Attack, I appreciate it
Posted on June 21, 2008, 8:48 amKat Attack, I appreciate it very much, but -- no one will ever read it here! Can we have a separate sticky for sea salt soaks? Or maybe rename this thread and reverse the order? The instructions on soaking are probably more important than my little lecture about aftercare.
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I'll reverse the order,
Posted on June 23, 2008, 10:48 amI'll reverse the order, Don't want to have too many stickies
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I tend to research
Posted on June 25, 2008, 9:30 pmI tend to research everything and when it comes to healing piercings I agree with most even though they vary on some things. I have also read procedures from some piercers that make me think for them that breathing being a natural function is a good thing.
Do your homework and do not be afraid to ask why do you want me to use such and such. You are the one who will suffer from bad advice.
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My nipple and clithood
Posted on June 30, 2008, 8:22 amMy nipple and clithood piercings are about 3 years old now, maybe 3 1/2, and are long since healed. I still remember mixing sea salt in little dixie cups, propping the pillows up on my bed and holding the cups over my nipples for the soak. I never had any issues with infection and they healed wonderfully. As did the clithood piercing (same method used).
Showering daily, and using just a normal soap to soap the rings and turn them, then rinse, worked as well with no drying out from anti-bacterial soap. Just keep it clean and let them 'breathe' often (no bra or underwear) periodically during the day. (And no, I don't mean outdoors *L*)
Sea-salt and warm water and daily cleansing - excellent regiment!
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The current thinking is that
Posted on June 30, 2008, 8:39 amThe current thinking is that turning is harmful to the delicate healing skin inside the piercing; so--no need to turn, and especially don't force them to turn. If they turn by themselves, fine.
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Hi Cloud! I have gold rings
Posted on June 30, 2008, 8:43 amHi Cloud!
I have gold rings through the nipples and the piercer told me to make sure the "crusties" (that sounds awful doesn't it?) had to be removed first and that they had to be turned so that the skin didn't stick to them. Has that changed? I never had any problem turning mine, but made sure they were wet and cleaned (did it in the shower) before they were turned.
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yeah, that advice is
Posted on June 30, 2008, 9:32 amyeah, that advice is outdated for new piercings. There's really no danger of the jewelry sticking to the skin. But since yours are healed, it's fine if they turn; you just don't need to turn.
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Thanks Cloud!
Posted on June 30, 2008, 4:47 pmThanks Cloud!
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Oh god, the amount of well
Posted on July 6, 2008, 12:21 amOh god, the amount of well meaning advice I've gotten!

So annoying!
But I'm still struggling with a nose piercing bump and I cannot find sea salt anywhere. Still doing hot soaks and compresses though. And using 15% tea tree oil overnight. Is that ok?
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I guess you'll let us know.
Posted on July 9, 2008, 7:04 amI guess you'll let us know.
Can you find regular table sale with no iodine? You can use that if you have to .
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Kosher salt (or
Posted on July 11, 2008, 10:51 amKosher salt (or koshering/coarse cooking salt) would be the next best thing over sea salt, so long as it doesn't have any anti-caking compounds such as sodium ferrocyanide which can irritate the piercings. Its impossible, or nearly so, to find regular table salt without these anti-caking compounds added.
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On the Tribe video for sea
Posted on July 13, 2008, 8:48 pmOn the Tribe video for sea salt soaks of eyebrow and nipple piercings the mixture given was 1/8 tsp sea salt to 8 oz of water. I have always been told it was 1/4 tsp sea salt to 8oz water.
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I think it's 1/4 tsp. If
Posted on July 24, 2008, 11:22 amI think it's 1/4 tsp. If the mixture is too weak, it won't have the same effect.
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Okay. I have had my nipple
Posted on September 7, 2008, 7:15 pmOkay. I have had my nipple piercings for just over a month now, and they were doing pretty well I think. I managed to bump them decently a couple times, and it hurt a little, but I didn't notice any bad after-effects. I had the normal, little bit of bleeding, little bit of bruising, but it went away relatively quickly. I've been getting the oozing stuff (it didn't start right away), but its all been white or nearly white, nothing green like they have said to watch out for, and nothing alarming really, just not that pretty when its not cleaned off.
I have stainless steel (i'm not sure on the gauge, but from what I've read I'm hoping 10, but I'm thinking they're 12 maybe, just because I have "under developed nipples" as stated by my piercer.. what can I say? I was a late bloomer..) barbells that are straight, not curved. The piercings are at angles \ / <-- like that, and I love them, in fact it feels like I've had them WAY longer, just because they feel like a natural part of me.
I guess I should get to my question.. recently, about two days ago, I noticed a white-ish bump along the upper hole of my right pierce, its hard to explain the placement, but where it is partially in the pierce and partially out. Its small, just slightly red around the area, and I pressed on it a little and it didn't seem like something anything would ooze out of without putting some effort into it, but it sort of has a pimple-like look. I've been doing the normal regime of sea salt soaks with warm, nearly hot water and cleaning thoroughly in the shower. I bought H2O ocean for clean-up in between seas salt soaks, but the sprayer clogged so on occasion I use a Q-tip in warm water to clean gunk off the balls. I use very gentle soap that is unscented as I have fairly sensitive skin.
All that being said, does anyone know what might have caused this bump-thing. I tried doing a search in the site with similar problems and it looked like one guy changed to Titanium and it briefly resolved the issue, but not permanently. Does this sound like something that will resolve itself, or is there a special treatment I should do. I've seen mention of Tea Tree oil for bumps etc, but this sounds like a bad idea for nipples, especially female nipples.
What do you recommend? Should I see a piercing professional, (if you are one, would a picture help with advice?) should I keep on trucking and keep an eye on it? Its just something that's been worrying me some lately, and I wouldn't mind gaining some peace of mind one way or another.
One more thing, so I can tell the boyfriend this mainly. Having his hands near my nipples, not so smart for them as they heal, right? Could they be if they were just washed with antibacterial soap (thoroughly) and he touched gently, i.e. no pressing, pulling, or pinching ?
Thanks! I look forward to hearing from you!
(Pretty lengthy for a first post, huh?)
About to make it lengthier. In the shower, when washing them, I usually press the lower ball to my skin (after cleaning outer gunk of course) and do the same with the upper ball a couple times to get the soap through the piercing and do the same with rinsing to make sure it is all out of the piercing. Is this okay? It doesn't really hurt at all or anything, but after reading the "No Turning" thing I thought I'd ask.
Alright, ACTUALLY done this time.
I appreciate you taking a ridiculous amount of time to read this, and thanks in advance for any thoughtful replies that may come my way.
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I have a healed septum
Posted on January 2, 2009, 8:15 amI have a healed septum piercing and I also have a cold.
I want to take the barbell out because it has gotten sore, but I am concerned that if snot/drainage got into the open piercing it could cause infection, is this wrong?